Author, Speaker, Coach

About Lucia Bellafante

Lucia Bellafante, is a mother, grandmother, author, speaker, coach and educator who applies her professional, and personal knowledge and experience as a parent, educator and master coach to help parents raise happy, healthy, safe and successful children.

Lucia has always been a story teller and teacher. As a child she crafted stories and taught her precocious brother to keep him occupied. An educator with two specialists and two teaching degrees, who taught for 35 years, Lucia implemented the art of story telling to help both children and parents. Today, Lucia has blended her passions, and expertise to help children and parents through her children’s books which serve as a bridge for parents and children to communicate, learn and spend quality time together.

Lucia created THANKS™ to further support parents and caregivers along their journey by providing a blueprint for establishing and maintaining a healthy, strong and supportive relationship with children so that children grow to be happy, healthy, safe and successful.

For a list of credentials please see below.

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Author

 
You read with your child for many reasons: there are times you want to read with your child and laugh, there are times you want to read with your child and cuddle, there are times when you read because you’re searching for the right words to help explain something, or maybe you’re looking for a story that’s uplifting and inspiring.
 
As an author writing children’s picture books I write to entertain, educate, and enrich the lives of parents and children through story. My stories help you raise happy, healthy, safe and successful children and set the stage to have conversations with your child about all sorts of topics, some challenging, some enlightening, and some just for fun.
 
I have developed three series, written expressly so that you have the opportunity to choose the book that best suits your and your child’s needs at a particular time. Each series and story is written and illustrated to be representative of IDEA, (inclusivity, diversity, equity and accessibility). Books can be easily applied to the Ontario school curriculum and are accompanied with activity suggestions for parent and child to extend learning and fun.
 

Speaker

 

When you need a well rounded, soft spoken and passionate speaker who’s able to effectively communicate with a group of students about anti-bullying, or speak with parents about how to move forward after learning about a child’s diagnosis, or even talk about surviving divorce so that everyone not only endures but thrives, Lucia is the person to call.

As a speaker, I come from a place of compassion, honesty, and respect. I can tailor talks to your specific needs for time, topic and audience. My years as an itinerant vision teacher working with children who were blind and partially sighted taught me how to accommodate for the needs of my clients.

 

Coach

 

For the times in your life when you need a friendly, well-informed, non-judgemental guide who will help you to be accountable and encourage you to achieve your parenting goals.

As a coach, I ask questions and guide you to find the answers that are best for you and your family. You might be searching for a way to get your child to do homework, or stop biting, or throwing temper tantrums; together we get to the root of the problem and craft a solution so that peace and harmony reign within your home.

Educator

 

Sometimes you need a little more than questions, you need answers, support and education.

As an educator, I present workshops that inspire, and empower parents through knowledge and practical information so that both parents and children are respected, supported and grow.

As an experienced educator, I help teachers, and support staff understand the value of inclusivity and accommodations so that all students reach their full potential.

 

Professional Credentials

Bachelor of Education
Blind and Low Vision Specialist
Elementary Writing Specialist
AMI – Montessori Casa Teacher

Certified Master Coach Practitioner
Certified Professional Speaker
Certified Yoga Instructor
Certified Yoga Nidra Meditation Instructor
Certified Soul Realignment ® Practitioner

Certified Reiki Master 
Certified Stress Management Coach
Certified Sleep Science Coach
Certified Weight-loss and Lifestyle Coach 
Certified in Hyponolinguistics

Words don’t always express the amount of gratitude that you feel for someone. At times, you need more than just the phrase “thank you.” Understanding what actions you can take to truly show your appreciation and gratitude can help you create stronger, more fullfilling relationships. Next time you want to tell someone ‘thanks’ without actually saying it, you’ll have an arsenal of new tactics.


Give Them Your Time
The most valuable thing you can give someone is time out of your day. With so many having to deal with their work and family, it can be hard to find time to hang out with someone else. Scheduling time to talk or hang out with someone that you appreciate is one way you can show them gratitude. You are telling them that they are an essential part of your life, that no matter what happens you can make time for them.
Take a break from your life and schedule them in your calendar to get coffee or lunch. When you choose spending times with those who matter to you, you’re showing them your interest in their life. So go for it and connect today to discover how they’re are doing, what they are struggling with, and what you can do help.

Use Actions
Don’t be afraid to show your appreciation by writing a handwritten note. Take the time to be specific and share, in writing, exactly what you’re thankful for and don’t forget to say how much better your life is because they are a part of it. Everyone likes to know that they matter and that they make a positive difference. Jot down fond memories or experiences that you’ve shared together. Remembering a fun or exciting shared moment can truly be up lifting. You can hand them the note personally, mail it or leave it somewhere you know they’ll look. Getting a physical token of appreciation will be the highlight of the day for your friend.

Self-sacrifice
Another significant way to show someone you appreciate them is by sharing your time or talents. If you’re an expert at baking and your friend tends to struggle with it, be there to help them. Give them some pointers and tips that they can use next time they want to make a cake. You can also consider inviting them over for some baking fun. Don’t downplay your strengths, and when your friends need help, jump to assist them. If you have a few extra minutes or even if you don’t consider using that time to check in on a friend instead. That thoughtful act shows them how important they are to you.
Showing your appreciation can make a positive difference in the lives of your family, friends and children. Remember, it’s the small gestures that sometimes mean the most to people.