Words don’t always express the amount of gratitude that you feel for someone. At times, you need more than just the phrase “thank you.” Understanding what actions you can take to truly show your appreciation and gratitude can help you create stronger, more fullfilling relationships. Next time you want to tell someone ‘thanks’ without actually saying it, you’ll have an arsenal of new tactics.
Give Them Your Time
The most valuable thing you can give someone is time out of your day. With so many having to deal with their work and family, it can be hard to find time to hang out with someone else. Scheduling time to talk or hang out with someone that you appreciate is one way you can show them gratitude. You are telling them that they are an essential part of your life, that no matter what happens you can make time for them.
Take a break from your life and schedule them in your calendar to get coffee or lunch. When you choose spending times with those who matter to you, you’re showing them your interest in their life. So go for it and connect today to discover how they’re are doing, what they are struggling with, and what you can do help.
Use Actions
Don’t be afraid to show your appreciation by writing a handwritten note. Take the time to be specific and share, in writing, exactly what you’re thankful for and don’t forget to say how much better your life is because they are a part of it. Everyone likes to know that they matter and that they make a positive difference. Jot down fond memories or experiences that you’ve shared together. Remembering a fun or exciting shared moment can truly be up lifting. You can hand them the note personally, mail it or leave it somewhere you know they’ll look. Getting a physical token of appreciation will be the highlight of the day for your friend.
Self-sacrifice
Another significant way to show someone you appreciate them is by sharing your time or talents. If you’re an expert at baking and your friend tends to struggle with it, be there to help them. Give them some pointers and tips that they can use next time they want to make a cake. You can also consider inviting them over for some baking fun. Don’t downplay your strengths, and when your friends need help, jump to assist them. If you have a few extra minutes or even if you don’t consider using that time to check in on a friend instead. That thoughtful act shows them how important they are to you.
Showing your appreciation can make a positive difference in the lives of your family, friends and children. Remember, it’s the small gestures that sometimes mean the most to people.